Ironically, it was given to me for that reason I am giving it to you.

Isn’t this what you wanted? Why does it trouble you, then? Is it because it is now a given, and not a fight? End result is still the same, you wanted x, and now you are getting x.

 

Take deep breaths.

 

Clear your mind.

 

Would you rather live in the state of not knowing? Of uncertainty? That used to drive you crazy. Remember how you planned, re-planned, unplanned, and planned to plan? Now, that part has been done for you. The end result is still the same. In fact, now you know you are getting what you wanted.

 

Oh wait, you didn’t really have that in mind, did you?

 

You had some vague faraway thought of how you imagined things could be, but nothing definite. And now, what has happened is that you are given the realities. Those bubbles floating around are now solid rocks. Hold on to them for safety, drift to some new land, or sink. You choose.

 

What are you feeling? Knock knock.

 

Disappointed?

Heart-broken?

Angry?

Frustrated?

Defeated?

 

 

 

 

However you may be feeling, there is someone else feeling just like you. Maybe in slightly different proportions, but this is the time for you to be that shoulder, and remember that you have (multiple) shoulders more than willing to be there for you.