Wednesday, 8 March 2017

A Journey of a Thousand Miles Takes a Miniscule Fourth Step


(22/1/14)
 
Side-tracked yet again. But, on a not-totally unrelated note, I did manage to accomplish something to do with my plans for after travel; which, I am not going to divulge here. At least, not now.
 
So travelling overseas is daunting in itself, and part of what is so scary is the various details I just might forget to tend to. For example:
(i)                  Getting cash when I am in Europe. Does it make sense to be carrying around three weeks’ worth of cash? How do I withdraw cash overseas?
(ii)                Can I afford to finance the whole thing in cash?
(iii)               Is it practical to do so?
 
I’ve found that it might be useful to have a credit card with me; for some reason there are things that just cannot be bought with debit cards (or is it my debit card provider is lousy?) even if you have sufficient balance.
 
Also, some credit cards come with travel insurance, which I will and probably should get.
 
So last weekend I went to sign up for my very first credit card. My God….I made the mistake of doing so at a fair, and I was bombarded by cc sales people and free gifts which I did not want. Now Today I find out that there is one card that has been approved, and unfortunately it is not the card that I want. I wanted one from another bank, as fellow users have attested to the cc’s good customer service, benefits (as in dining discounts and such), and policies.
 
The clock is ticking in on my decision of travel mode. Should I buy that Rail Pass? I have another week before salary comes in (I am planning to get the Rail Pass as well as book accommodations using my cc (should I already get it) or try to use my debit card (which has not yet been successful so far).
 
What I am trying to do here is use my remaining months’ salaries to fund as much of my expenses, so that my savings remain intact. Yes, it means that no added savings can be made, but not much is lost either. Hopefully, I can get back on track with my savings when I return.
 
Yes, the last paragraph sounds awfully confusing; I apologize for that. However, there are things I have not mentioned here, which is why it is a bit confusing. I just needed to clear my head. Sorry.
 

A Journey of a Thousand Miles Takes Its Third Step


18/1/14

 
I seemed to have managed to let myself get side-tracked from my great adventure..but no worries..I’m baaaaaaaaack!!!
 
So I found this website http://www.seat61.com and this fella is amazingggggg.. I mean, I’m pretty sure there are other highly helpful travel blogs which I have yet to discover, but this guy has like suuuuuuuuper easy to use drop-down lists of how to get where cheap. Remember that I was planning on getting that Rail Pass? Well, I don’t see any harm in doing some math with just how much difference it would make if I bought one by one tickets (using the Global Rail Pass itinerary as a reference). Especially since I do kinda like the itinerary suggested (though it sounds kinds packed and like a lot to do in so little time)
 
Anyhow, let’s do some math:
From To Cheapest train (approx.)(in Euros)
Paris Amsterdam 35
Amsterdam Berlin 39
Berlin Prague 29
Prague Vienna 19
Vienna Salzburg *haven’t found this train yet*
Salzburg Venice 39
Venice Florence 19
Florence Rome 19 (but I should also consider getting an Italy Rail Pass or something)
Rome Monaco/Cannes About 20 (has to be divided into two trains which I haven’t found)
Monaco Barcelona *Haven’t found this train yet*
Barcelona Paris 59
    Total: 278
 
These were more or less the destinations I would have gotten from the Global Pass which was priced at 375 to which I subsequently discovered there were unincluded compulsory reservation fees.
Now the above calculations were estimates of the lowest fares I could get. Unfortunately, most of them require early bookings, which means I’ll be tied to a schedule. I’m not quite sure if I want that. I mean, what if I get lost or forget or something?
However, the grand total of this point-to-point ticket calculation is approx. 278 euros; which is almost 100 euros difference. Also take into consideration that this point-to-point bookings already include the seat reservations and shouldn’t cost any extra charges. For someone who is on a tight shoestring, this is a lot to consider!
 
So it’s back to the drawing board. Like my friend said, it will be a busy few months for me. But the trip is definitely going to happen. The trip is paid for…..in cash!!!!
 
Oh, and I found that www.hostelbookers.com is a great site if you’re looking for cheap hostels to stay in!! I found dirt cheap hostels like half cheaper than hostelworld. But again, I haven’t booked anything yet. Still googling and reading up on a lot.
 
For any of you out there clueless on how to even start, perhaps my list of rantings might help you see that it’s perfectly ok to be a bit overwhelmed. Slow and steady, and plan early.
 
 
It’s gonna happen =)
 

A Journey of a Thousand Miles Takes a Second Step


14/1/14

It’s odd, but now that the tickets are safely bought and paid for, I feel like everything else is just in order. I mean, not like I have everything set for me, but I don’t feel so flustered at “Where do I even begin planning such a big life-changing trip?”

Ok, admittedly, I had a friend who badgered and pushed me for the past 24 hours to get my tickets..but it was a push I definitely needed. I had not flown out of the country ever since I arrived about two decades ago and had definitely never purchased flight tickets for myself.  Had no idea what current flight rules were, what sort of privileges you could get.

 

Tip: If your connecting flight is more than 5 hours away, airlines are required to provide you with hotel accommodations; some even give passes to local tours for the long wait. They are (expectedly) not openly stating this and you have to ask at the connecting country when you land for any waiting accommodations. I have yet to verify this. I’ll let you know when I do =) (oh my God… “..WHEN I do”)

 

Right now, my next step is to plan how I’ll be getting around Europe. Since I have no idea what the place looks like (short of movies like Da Vinci Code), and I am a petit female travelling alone for the first time, my friend suggested to get a Eurail pass.

I’ve read a lot about how it ties your trip unnecessarily and it makes you try to squeeze in as many trips due to having paid forward the Passes, and not being able to go on a whim (which is essentially the beauty of backpacking). However, I think that a Pass would be good for me because:

(I)                 If I’ve paid forward for my transportation before my trip, then my spending budget there shouldn’t be as big.

(II)               I don’t really have a list of things I want to see, so the fixed itinerary gives me that starter list of where I could go in those cities.

(III)             Now this is a weird one. Since I’m alone, and I don’t think I want anyone from back home to be keeping tabs on me, I think having a train route to keep me company is somewhat of a comfort.

(IV)             I loved travelling by train (at least I have a lot of amazing stories of train rides back in the days of yore when I was still in uni).

 

So far, I’ve seen the price of the Eurail pass I’m aiming for is 375 Euros for 15 continuous days travelling to 13 main cities.

 

Top sites included:

1)      Eiffel Tower ↓ (Paris)

2)      Palace of Versailles ↓ (Versailles)

3)      Anne Frank House ↓ (Amsterdam)

4)      Checkpoint Charlie ↓ (Berlin)

5)      Charles Bridge ↓ (Prague)

6)      Sound of Music Tour ↓ (Salzburg)

7)      Neuschwanstein Castle ↓ (Füssen)

8)      Gondola ride in Venice ↓ (Venice)

9)      Statue of David ↓ (Florence)

10)   The Colosseum ↓ (Rome)

11)   St Peter's Basilica ↓ (Vatican City)

12)   Monte Carlo Casino ↓ (Monte Carlo)

13)   Sagrada Familia ↓ (Barcelona)

 

Being the number-crazy hooligan that I am, let me try to break this down.

16 I’ll arrive in Paris on the afternoon of Day 1 – I plan to book my accommodation for the first two nights in Paris to allow me to get my bearings.

17 Day 2 – Eiffel Tower (Paris) The train takes 12 minutes to Versailles. I’ll try to find alternative ways of getting there so I can extend when my pass is activated.

18 Day 3 – Palace of Versailles (Versailles)

19 Day 4 – Pass activated. Anne Frank House ↓ (Amsterdam).

20 Day 5 – Amsterdam cheese search. The train to Berlin will take 6h25m; I should check to see if there’s an overnight train.

21 Day 6 - Checkpoint Charlie ↓ (Berlin)

22 Day 7 – What else does Berlin have to offer?

23 Day 8 - Charles Bridge ↓ (Prague).

24 Day 9 – Haven’t heard much of Prague, but it sounds mighty mysterious from my Agatha Christie novel. Train to Salzburg takes 7h; should check for night trains.

25 Day 10 – Sound of Music Tour ↓ (Salzburg)

26 Day 11 - Neuschwanstein Castle ↓ (Füssen). Train to Venice is 9h35m; definitely should try to get night train.

27 Day 12 - Gondola ride in Venice ↓ (Venice)

28 Day 13 – Venice

29 Day 14 - Statue of David ↓ (Florence)

 

30 Day 15 – Italy escapade !!

1 Day 16 - St Peter's Basilica ↓ (Vatican City)

2 Day 17 - Monte Carlo Casino ↓ (Monte Carlo). The train to Barcelona takes 13h+. Definite night train must.

3 Day 18 - Pass expires. Sagrada Familia ↓ (Barcelona)

4 Day 19 - Spain escapade!

5 Day 20 - Spain escapade!

6 Day 21 I’ll reserve a whole day to trying to find my way back to Paris.

7 Day 22 Fly out of Paris in the morning..I can’t imagine how I’ll be feeling then.

 

 

Now I have yet to sort out my accommodations; of course, all this isn’t yet set in stone. I haven’t actually bought the Pass yet. Waiting for this month’s paycheck to come in =P I’m trying to find out whether the Passes fluctuate in price. Does it make a difference if I buy it now or wait until I arrive in Paris? Hmmmm….

 

 

I know all this may not make sense to you (if you’re as scared as I was at making this amazing trip), but once the trip feels “real” and within reach, a lot of things start to make much more sense. Things like train schedules and bookings..

 

Extra tips from my dear friend:

·         DON’T wear white socks; especially with white sneakers.

·         Europeans do indeed dress in subdued colors. Being a color lover myself, I had to reassess my clothe choices (I’m talking from the standpoint of a person who wears bright pink t-shirts with traffic light yellow tank-top, blue jeans, army pattern green scarf all as one outfit).

·         Try not to have people easily identify you to your luggage (ie: no bright blue backpack)

·         Dress in layers so that if it’s too hot, you can lessen the layers. You can add on if it gets cold.

·         Fleece jackets are great for keeping warm.

·         Three sets of clothes should suffice for a short trip like mine. One to wear, one to wash, one to have clean.

·         Buy food from the grocery shops. Fruit’s pretty cheap. But do try the local delicacies when you encounter them.

·         Bring a notebook to scribble in. There’s an amazing amount of thing’s you’ll want to scribble down and it makes for a great keepsake.

·         Lock your backpack with a padlock.

 

 

 

Wow….travel-logging is exciting =) and I hven’t even started my travels yet ….I can’t wait!!

 

 


 

 

A Journey of a Thousand Miles Begins with the First Step.


13/1/2014

Reasons why I am doing this trip, and why I’m doing it NOW:

1.       It’s been a lifelong dream from an invisible bucket list I have yet to write.

2.       I’ll be turning 26 this year and the Eurails are cheaper for Youths below the age of 26.

3.       I have a friend (a few) helping me out, supporting me, and giving me endless advice.

4.       My life has become mundane, repetitive, comfortable, and uneventful this past year.

5.       I miss my old outlook on life; I’ve forgotten the finer pleasures I so much took in my daily escapades in the past.

6.       I can somewhat afford to go without adding any (or much) debt to my name.

7.       I am healthy and strong enough; or at least getting myself in shape is not as hard as it will be in say, 7 years.

8.       I want to see the world, meet new people, get on an airplane, go on an incredible adventure.
9. I do not have any solid commitments yet (no family, no significant other, no house, no car...)

 

 

Reasons why I hadn’t gone before (as in, earlier):

1.       I had no idea how to start planning.

2.       I didn’t own a passport.

3.       Getting my baby passport would cause concern amongst people whose concern I do not want.

4.       I didn’t have the money.

5.       I was scared; of getting lost, of being scammed, attacked, and taken advantage of…

6.       I had just started my career.

7.       I couldn’t just take an extended time away from work.

8.       Unfamiliar toilets.

9.       Being where people might not understand me (language barriers)

10.   Dogs.

11.   Not knowing if I’ll have a place to sleep.

12.   Going bankrupt once the trip is over.

13.   Losing all that I’ve been working for all this while (career, savings, stability, paying off loans)

14.   I don’t have a backpack.

15.   No one I want to will go with me, and I don’t want to go with just anyone.

16.   I’m afraid of being alone.

 

What I’ve accomplished for my journey to his date (13/1/14):

1.       Getting my passport photo taken.

2.       Getting my passport (done on 27/12/13)

3.       Getting my flight tickets (done on 13/1/14)

Journey of A Thousand Miles In First Retrospect

So, as the title suggests, I have returned from my grand adventure, only to be hungry for more. Not knowing if and when this will be published, let me begin with a boiled down listing exercise.



How to Plan a Trip of Your Own
1. Determine dates of your trip.
2. Buy flight tickets
3. Prioritize: what you want to see, how you want to get around
4. Survey accommodation prices based on (3)



After following steps 1-4, this is what you will have accomplished
1. A (paid) commitment to yourself that this trip really will happen. Backing out means more than just being called chicken by your alter ego, it also means losing out on paid-for-flight tickets.
2. A rough itinerary as well as an estimate on how much you will be spending on transport, entertainment, food, and accommodation.
3. A bird's eye view of whether you packed too much into an impossible timeframe or if you are coasting on an extended holiday. Both have pros and cons of their own. It is up to you to find that equilibrium point.
4. A deadline for you to be doing certain things, such as paperwork and bookings.



So, once the ball is rolling, stay positive, and keep telling yourself that this is real; this is you, and you are really doing this. Good luck!

Sunday, 6 March 2016

A physical torment, an emotional agony.

How do I describe to you my fear. I miss you. I miss your warmth, the scent of your skin against mine. I miss catching you looking at me. I miss seeing the love in your eyes. Were they a reflection of mine?
Am I afraid I'll stop missing you? Or am I afraid I'll miss you so much it consumes me.


I guess, I just...


I miss you, that's all.
Don't put the trouble into trouble later the trouble will trouble you.